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Top, Bottom and Everywhere in Between

Are you a top, a bottom, or somewhere in between? Read more about the roles here and find out what it takes to be a power top or a power bottom.

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LYC Big Gay Out 2015

Where: Coyle Park, Pt Chevalier

When: February 8th 2015

New Zealand's premier gay event, the LYC Big Gay Out, will return to Coyle Park, Pt Chevalier on Sunday, 8 February 2015. Mark your calendars now because we are expecting the day to be bigger, gayer and better than ever before!

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Q. Not necessarily looking for a serious relationship, but not looking for a one night stand either, maybe a "fun" friendship. Been to a gay club, no luck really, and just quite awkward...not sure how to…


Meeting guys can be difficult, especially when you’re after a fuckbuddy you can be good friends with. Taking the time to date someone, and using the date to talk about what you’re looking for, is…

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