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LYC in Salient

We wrote an article about what it's like being a guy who bangs other guys in New Zealand in 2014 for this year's queer issue of Salient.

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Where: 53 Nelson Street, Auckland CBD

When: May 24th 2014

Coming this May, FOREPLAY will be Auckland’s most playful party of the year! A place where Australia-based and internationally sought after DJ Dan Slater and Sydney’s fastest rising star, Philthy Holster, will join forces with top New Zealand DJ’s to bring every man and woman to musical climax; a place where dual party zones promise twice the fun!

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Q. I had my first BJ the other day with a guy and couldn't even cum. It was in a bathroom. Is it cause it like meant nothing to me? Is it normal for your first…


You not ejaculating could reflect a number of factors: the fact that there was no emotional connection, as you say,  or nervousness because it was your first time, or the context of the bathroom felt…

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