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Why Does Anal Sex Feel Good?

For a first-timer, anal sex can seem daunting and even painful. But anyone who's seen gay porn knows that the bottom isn't doing it out of the goodness of his heart - here's why.

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URGE Black

Where: James Smith Basement, Wellington

When: July 11th 2015

URGE Bar and LYC return to the capital for one more big dance party adventure.

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Ask a Sexpert

Q. I have a really big cock and most the time my partners are scared to let me go balls deep. is there an easy position to go in deeper?


Anal sex with bigger dicks is possible, and easiest if you let the bottom take control. Lube up his ass and your condom-covered cock (a lot), and have him sit on top of you so…

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