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Why Does Anal Sex Feel Good?

For a first-timer, anal sex can seem daunting and even painful. But anyone who's seen gay porn knows that the bottom isn't doing it out of the goodness of his heart - here's why.

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Internationals AIDS Candlelight Memorial

Where: 5 Locations around NZ

When: May 17th 2015

The oldest tradition against HIV / AIDS held annually around New Zealand and across the world.

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Ask a Sexpert

Q. I have just started to finger myself. I tried it once without lube and once with shower gel in the shower. Is it normal if I feel irritated afterwards? The only thing is I didn't…


Firstly, go buy some lube or get us to send you some with the condom/lube order form below. The shower gel you’re using could have harsh chemicals in it which might be why your asshole…

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